A look into a special needs mom's everyday life of raising 3 kids- when one of them won't (can't) leave the house. - This blog was started 15 years ago. It is a window into our world and our journey to supporting our son. Who now has the capacity to not only leave our house (on his terms) but to engage in many other activities of life with joy! This is a story about hope!
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Here's a look at my story.........
I am a wife, a mom to 3 children- ages 11 1/2, 9 and 6. I do not work outside the house, as my son who has Autism, PTSD, ADHD, Bowel motility disorder with cecostomy is not able to function outside our home environment. I mean literally has no coping skills, no ability to self regulate and lives in fight or flight. As you can imagine this causes a lot of disruption, chaos and absolute craziness at times. When he was little, we could "make him" go by strapping him into a stroller, buckling him into a car seat and yes, we did have a lot of screaming fits. Well, we've begun to understand the full depth of his issues, both medically and psychologically. Now at 9, he no longer rides in a stroller, can unbuckle himself from seatbelts. And my scariest moments- him running- literally just running away like a scared deer just bolting! This makes for a very interesting life to say the least. We have behaviorists in our home every day working with him, he's seen a psychiatrist since he was 5- oh yeah, the reason for our first visit with her- "HE WOULDN'T LEAVE THE HOUSE"! No joke. So now 4 years later, well he's a lot bigger and stronger so this makes things way more challenging. This makes life as most of us know it difficult, interesting, and pretty much everyday a whirlwind. I have yet to meet another family in a situation like ours- So this is my story- and our family's journey to help their child who suffers so much from the external environment- all the while raising 2 daughters and trying to have them exist in a world outside our home.
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